It has come to my attention that some people may have been irked by my reluctance, on the 'Strong or Stroppy' panel at Wiscon to come out and name particular books that irritated me.
There were at least two reasons for this.
Failure to remember with the kind of accuracy I should like the authors' names &/or the exact titles. Given that these were books I may have given up on partway through. Didn't want to mislead people by naming something that sounded like the book/author that pissed me off, but was actually not.
But more importantly, while I'm quite happy to name books that I think get the strong heroine right (whether as ass-kicking tough or in some other mode), I'm less confident about slagging off on books that, for me, failed. Because, operative term there, for me.
In several cases, I'm sure what happened with a particular book at a particular time was that it was just the catalyst which precipitated my annoyance with (say) trope of female cyborg working for government agency who is surprisingly incompetent. It might work for other people and I don't want to prejudice other readers against it. (This perhaps intersects with the 'Secret Decoder Ring' panel - what the reader brings to a book from previous reading experiences.)
Or indeed, I might have been reading a book at some time when I was feeling particularly picky and nitpicky.
Also, book may have rubbed painfully up against my own personal no-go tropes in other ways besides 'feistiness' in female protag.
But there's also my desire to discuss patterns and themes and tendencies rather than to trash specific books or authors (and some authors do better in other books, they may just have slipped up the once). That can be enjoyable, but is not, for me, an entirely satisfactory approach. As I understood it, the panel was about those general issues, not about 'let's bash on "feisty" heroines who constantly need rescuing'.
Though if that's what people wanted, that's okay too.
It's just not my bag, diff'rent strokes for diff'rent folks, etc.