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My attention was recently drawn, as we say, to an early C20th composer, and I thought, that name sounds familiar, so I pottered off to look at my database of notes, and yes, they were hanging out in sex reform circles, interesting, no, especially as they seem generally to be described as 'reclusive' -

So anyway, I went to look up their entry in the Oxford Dictionary of National Biography and it is all about The Music (they were also apparently a top-level performer as well as prolific composer) and nothing about this other aspect.

And some while ago I perchanced to look up the ODNB entry for an early C20th lawyer whom I had come across in those same circles, and he was all about anti-censorship, and reforming the divorce laws (and we suspect also handling these sensitive matters for his mates in his professional capacity, no doubt) -

Very worthy.

He was also, I have come across indications in correspondence and biographies, rather a Not Safe In Taxis kinda guy, or at least, the handsy menace of the 1917 Club.

I don't actually know if there's a procedure for saying to editors of ODNB 'Hi, I have Further Info', let alone 'by the way, it's dishing the dirt'.

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And weirdly coincidental and making me think I had suddenly created a slight shift in the currents of the universe about me....

Anyway, I was bemoaning on another platform that no-one asks Old Hedjog anymore to do book reviews within purlieux of interest - yes, this is a hint -

- and lo and behold, editor of learned journal within my field came back saying wow, we so should have been asking you, what would you like to review?

So I have two books wending their way towards me for my consideration.

Which is nice.

But then I had a phone-call from friend & colleague about case of Important Work in progress left by sadly prematurely deceased colleague and possibility of getting it into a condition to be published. This is all very contingent upon ALOT of things coming together but WOW I am EXCITED at this prospect.

(There was also news of some really weird shit going down with mutual acquaintances that I had not wotted of, but that was entirely tangential.)

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I think most of dr rdrz have some knowledge of this: Arsenic and Old Wallpapers - I may have suggested sending specially-commissioned rolls to those people who want to live a luvverly retro Victorian life-style, since I doubt there is water to be obtained from the Broad Street Pump these days - but are we at all surprised by this:

[T]he authorities in Britain and the USA were reluctant to challenge the interests of manufacturers or to sacrifice the revenue brought in by taxes on arsenic, a situation that recalls the delays in regulating the tobacco industry a century later. Many people remained sceptical about the dangers. William Morris, for example, refused to accept that concerns about arsenic were anything more than the results of ignorance and scaremongering. Morris’s early designs, like Trellis (1864) not only contained arsenical colours, but Morris himself was also a major shareholder in Devon Great Consuls, one of the largest arsenic mines in the world.

Sigh.

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I think PSC is Point Thahr Misst, here: Since I admitted to a foot fetish, my wife will no longer let me near her feet: she thought he was doing something nice for her, and it turned out it was about getting his jollies. I think it may be a little late in the day to 'Try to talk frankly and kindly with her and find ways to help her understand your needs'.

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This is an unusual story about colonial archives, i.e. that they were not removed from Papua New Guinea to Australia: ‘Thinking in Papua New Guinean Terms’: the Sensitive Files Case of 1972 and Australia’s Migrated Archive: 'an unlikely alliance of Australian archivists and academics with PNG nationalist elites saw the removals policy reversed, thus ensuring the nation’s colonial era records remained in place'.

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I've been, on various social media, promoting The Naked Anthropologist's London History Walks - this is a very good blogpost about the principle behind them: An Interest in the Backside of Things:

What if instead of a hierarchy low-to-high we think of sides of the story: that the version we hear of current events and history is the Front Side, the official version told from the point of view of those who have the greatest communications-power. Their view places themselves at the centre, where stated aims and values are not questioned. The facade of the palace. But for every such frontside, there are backsides, other realities, and that’s where the goings and comings of most people take place. Out of the limelight and usually out of historical accounts, too.

Calendar of her walks here.

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And on odd marginal happenings in history, Alice Mustian, Playwright:

This article provides the first full account of Alice Mustian, a Salisbury woman who in 1614 built a theatre in her backyard and charged an audience admission to watch a group of children perform a play that she had written about some salacious neighbourhood gossip. While the fact that this remarkable incident occurred is not unknown to scholars, the primary historical evidence about the event itself has remained largely unexamined. Drawing on unexplored ecclesiastical court records in the Wiltshire and Swindon History Centre, we offer a more complete picture of the performance, its complex social context, and the motivations of the parties involved. We locate it within the field of study of lost plays; we consider how it relates to other forms of theatre and performance culture in the period; and we discuss Mustian as a female dramatist whose play offers a tantalizing glimpse of the kinds of voices whose dramatic works may not have survived into the present.

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I'm not sure if this is actually true - some of the things going around have a touch of the urban legendary about them - but people policing other people's shopping baskets for 'non-essential' items?

I don't think this is so much going back to muttering about 'having dealings with spivs for black market goods' as 'entering into somewhat dodgy exchange of favours [we do not say what those favours are] with butcher/grocer/local farmer over rationed items'...

Also people dobbing other people in for being out and about when they shouldn't (if they are) - a bit like people getting very officious about other people's blackout and quite possibly working off longstanding grudges and feuds by grassing them up, with or without cause, to the ARP wardens...

Or muttering about people with large houses who somehow have not got any evacuees billetted on them...

Subset of #VeryBritishProblems, I fear.

Okay, there have been reports of the police being just a tad heavy-handed - Stephen Kinnock targeted by police for visiting father, Neil - but, on the other hand, if they have time on their hands for this sort of thing, we must suppose, I suppose? that they are not having to deal with actual rioting in the streets, looting of supermarkets and the entire breakdown of law'n'order that so many dystopian works have led us to anticipate?

Rather than people being so bored stuck isolating at home that they are sticking beans magnets up their noses?:

'Now, my dears, don't let baby fall out of window, don't play with the matches, and don't put beans up your noses.'
Though I find that is in Little Men rather than Little Women and thus possibly not as well known as if it was in the latter.

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Two dos, both in the same Bloomsberries-associated venue on Monday and Friday this week (though oddly enough, the invites gave different addresses - but several of the houses on that side of the square are all connected, and in the event, entrance was through the same main one, both times, with some matter of emergency handwritten notices.

(I observe that the last time I had occasion to visit this Hystorick Space was over 2 years ago.)

Once was a book-launch, second time was the launch of a research group falling generally within my field of interest.

At both there were two people whom I have not seen for lo, ages, and now twice within the week. At the first were several old acquaintances besides, at the second not.

One of those whom I did know this evening communicated to me a piece of gossip about my erstwhile bestie 'Q' that gave me an inward malicious smirk and the thought of 'predictable!'.

Thinking about the Bloomsberries, I was thinking about how very complicated these buildings are and how one would not wonder did anyone blunder into the wrong bedroom, or at least the bedroom not originally intended, but then realised that much of the confusion comes about through the knocking together of formerly separate residences by the Institutionz of Teh Highah Learninz that now occupy them.

And then thought about that epigram about 'living in squares and loving in triangles', which is neat, but isn't 'triangles' rather too neat and two-dimensional to describe the complexity of Bloomsbury relationships?

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What I read

Last episode of Tremontaine Season 4: pretty good overall.

Melissa Smith, Finders (2018), not, for me, among her top books, a bit too much futtock-shroudery about the mechanics of how things worked, which is just not my thing, somehow.

Noel Streatfeild, Grass in Piccadilly (1952), set just after the War as people are returning to London, about moderately upper-class couple who turn the house into flats and it is one of those books about random assortment of people brought together by this sort of contingency. And I will give it points for people muttering about the austerities of the time and Sir John going on about the Labour government without doing the full Thirkell groaning under the iron heel thing, plus general social detail of what it was like. I am not sure Noel gets a pass on the husband of the German-Jewish refugee couple being involved in the black market and on his way to becoming a spiv just because his put-upon wife is a total sweetie and the Angel in the House for the entire building. Was also brought up short by the derogatory reference to 'middle-aged pansies'. Plus maybe some class issues and condescension? Some melodraaamaaaa. V readable.

Finally made my way through the end of the huge volume of Noel Coward's life in letters: loved him and the letters, was a bit ambivalent about the editor, who perhaps was a bit overwhelmed by my dear, the noise! and the people! though as he has published extensively on Noel and his circle should be used to it. (He was also a bit coy: there was 'speculation' about Edwina Mountbatten's affairs with Robeson and Nehru??!!)

On the go

Paul R Deslandes, Oxbridge Men: British Masculinity and the Undergraduate Experience, 1850-1920 (2005), which has been sitting for a while on my shelves.

Up next

Dunno: maybe another Streatfeild?

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What I read

Finished the Upward book - not really a biography, more about thinking about him as a literary man, even though one might say that much of his life was one of 'unhistoric acts' as a teacher, Communist, non-Communist far left person, CND activist, etc; which might be more interesting to me, at least, than the endless angsting about whether literary art and politics were in conflict or not. And not entirely convinced that that conflict was why he wrote so little: I wonder whether agonising perfectionism - even quite late on he was constantly revising things actually in press - might have had more to do with it, but he did rather walk into the art vs politics thing with a very early article on the novel and Marxism shortly after joining the Party.

Courtney Milan, Proof by Seduction (2009) and Trial By Desire (2010), which were compelling readable even if I think she has improved in her more recent works. (Also, I am somewhat dissenting that the Victorians knew nothing about mental illness unless, presumably, it led to being banged up in an asylum or having Grace Poole swilling porter outside your door. I think Janet Oppenheim's Shattered Nerves might have somewhat to say on the subject: not to mention biographies of all those Eminent Victorians who had the pretty much standard period of breakdown over loss of faith, failure to achieve Senior Wrangler, disappointment in love, inability to marry for financial reasons, etc.)

Two episodes of Tremontaine Season 2, which I'm not getting into in the same way as season 1.

The latest issue of Slightly Foxed.

Vanessa North, Roller Girl (2016): one of a giveaway of 4 LGBT romance ebooks from Riptide Publishing. I started L C Chase, Pickup Men but couldn't get into it, but Roller Girl I found quite readable, and marked it up for some clever misdirection in the early chapters.

Heather Rose Jones, Mother of Souls (2016) - latest Alpennia novel, very good: though I did guess the authorship of the in-text scandalous novel quite early on.

Angela Thirkell, Northbridge Rectory (1941) - I've been in something of a mood for Thirkell, but didn't want to be confronted with a whingefest about the iron heel of Clem Atlee and the tyrannical despotic introduction of the welfare state, so the anxieties of the early years of the war fitted the bill. I just wish that just occasionally she would let rip a bit more with the subtle and nuanced and complex that she shows capable of in particular plot strands.

Marcia Muller, Skeleton in the Closet (2012) - novella in the Sharon McCone series. A bit slight.

Mrs Humphry, Manners for Men (1897): discussed elsewhere. Got a bit stock etiquette manual towards the end - though I liked the suggestion to make sure that the person about whose demise you are offering condolences is actually dead and that it was not actually someone else of the same name - but otherwise, amusing stuff.

John Moore, Brensham Village (1946) - read this some 50 years ago, it was in the school library, but found that various episodes I thought I recalled must have been in Portrait of Elmbury instead. I think I enjoyed it more back then. Though (on top of Ms Thirkell) I found the fact that the life of the village was under threat from a sinister capitalist syndicate buying up land and pushing down wages and 'developing' the place, rather than Red Socialism cheering (not that it was a cheering tale, just that 'faceless capitalist exploiters' was a nice change). I also thought his railways (good) vs charabancs (bad) was a dichotomy that was probably rehearsed over stagecoaches/railways, and I wonder if, more recently, charabancs might at least have been seen as communal enjoyment as opposed to the atomisation in cars.

On the go

T H White, The Age of Scandal (1950) which I am finding rather annoying, partly from the probably somewhat faux High Tory take on the thing, and partly because I am a dry and pompous adherent of Clio like what his epigraph disses on, and I don't think that even by standards of light popular history it's all that great. Also, yay blokey - I am not going to be terribly keen on an author who has an aside snark on 'Victorian bluestockings' and doesn't even mention the original Blues, except for one or two individuals in passing when they are part of some amusing anecdote. Also feel it is one of those books that anyone with access to a decentish library that would get them published collections of letters and so forth if they did not have them on their own shelves could hack together. Plus, think 'gossip' would be more accurate than 'scandal'. I have read much better books by White. (And OMG, is he really naive or trying to get something under the radar when he mentions the creepy George Selwyn's fondness for 'little girls?)

Another of the Riptide freebies, Anne Gallagher, Lead Me Not (2015) - Christian/LGBT romance fusion. Although the initial plot set up is somewhat implausible, she says with a considerable degree of litotes, I'm finding it quite readable.

Up next

I have discovered that Edward Upward's trilogy, The Spiral Ascent (1977 revised edition) is available free as ebooks from his official website. A bit daunting a prospect, though.

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Okay, I knew that I would probably not get the documents I sent an email preordering on my arrival, because I didn't manage to carve out enough time to sit down and do that thing until last Saturday: but I really did not anticipate that I would arrive to a situation where some malfunction meant they couldn't open the strongroom door and spent most of the morning leaving increasingly anguished messages for the maintenance staff.

However, they said, there was another collection which was not in that strongroom which was also on my list, but OMG, it is catalogued in an utterly horrendous way so that you can find specific things (though I found the database sometimes turned up different answers for the same search) but you can't browse, you can't search by date-span and you can't get an overview of the whole thing. For a trained archivist like I, this is beyond maddening: there is something deeply wrong in getting a hitlist of individual items, sometimes with detailed calendar-level descriptions, and then discovering that O HAI most of them are all in one file, but there is nowhere to get that file level description.

However, this did eventually net me some great correspondence apropos of interwar progressive educationalists, who, although occasionally prepared to close ranks against the evil bureaucratic Bumbledom of the Ministry of Education etc, seem to have been quite happy to trash one another along a kind of Goldilocks principle of 'they aren't really doing free education', while 'those others are just letting the kids run wild and learn nothing'.

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Further re the people who want to Speak to Somebody rather than emailing, and that young person yesterday who was spamming people via PM about their vampire-novel-in-progress, and remark in locked post on my rlist about someone who goes around connecting to people in a scholarly field rather sitting down and reading the literature...

Maybe it is possible to over-emphasise the important of Networking To Get Ahead.

Quite apart from Networking UR DOIN IT RONG - e.g. by sending quite lengthy spammy messages broadcast and scattershot to total strangers, many of whom don't even share the interest that might be piqued by your novel -

- You know, I think I've said this before, either specifically in relation to The Thruster, or more generally? -

- the messages that get passed along the network may not be wholly positive, as in -

'We were having a conversation on matters of mutual scholarly interest, and then they spotted Bigger Name in Field across the room and I couldn't see them for dust'.

(Or the one that applied with Thruster, that 'I was having conversation on matters of mutual scholarly interest with Bigger Name in Field, and Thruster came over and inserted themself into the conversation.)

At the very least, you've got to have something to offer a network rather than the perception that you are grimly determined to knot yourself into it. Just knowing people is not enough, especially if they think your work is either crap, or hasn't actually happened because you were too busy putting yourself about.

Reputation management may be important, but sometimes less is more.

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At least, I wonder if having read Doctor Faustus at an impressionable age lies behind the wild claims of a recent biographer that Benjamin Britten died of the syph.

Which it is contended he got from Peter Pears.

We should like to see some evidence that Pears actually had Ye Greate Poxxe, apart from speculative hypothesis that Britten died of something that might have been the outcome of late syphilis and if he had the latter he must have got it from somewhere and is not known to have been sexually promiscuous. (Thus, I suppose, goes the cobweb chain of reasoning...)

Physician who cared for composer in last three years of life casts doubt.

Britten's medical notes, seen by the Guardian but not available to Kildea before he wrote his biography, make no reference to syphilis, even by way of any accepted euphemisms for the infection current in the 1970s.

(In the 1970s??? WTF. I doubt medical notes alluded to 'the bad disease' or 'tainted blood' by that date, if they ever did. I think they would at least mention Wasserman + - though possibly it was a different test by then.)

Also, I cannot believe that conscientious medical personnel would not have given some indication in the notes if syphilis had been an issue, as it was a disease that there was a long history of health professionals contracting non-venereally via blood transfer, and this surely would have implications for case management health and safety.

I will concede that by the 1970s syphilis was rarely seen in common clinical practice, and I have seen articles from c. 1980s in medical journals suggesting that some cases diagnosed as senile dementia were in fact general paralysis of the insane, which docs were no longer identifying because it had fallen off the medical radar.

However, we note that the initial attack is supposed to have been a 1940 'bout of streptococcal tonsilitis' and I suspect that at that date, even given the massive decline in syphilis over the interwar period, doctors wouldn't have overlooked it had there been a likelihood.

But, whatever it says in the medical notes, somebody told somebody else, who told the biographer, that Britten totes had sifilis. So there. Totally incontrovertible evidence, no?

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Finally (at some expense) managed to get hold of a Region-2 compatible DVD of The Women (1939).

And discovered that while several of the women are nasty in assorted ways, everyone is not out to annexe somebody else's husband or put malicious gossip in circulation and there's even a fair degree of inter-female loyalty and supportiveness.

Okay, one is going to have difficulty in actually claiming as at all feminist a narrative world in which women's lives are all about hanging on to the husband you've got (in spite of any little problems of chasing other women, financial meanness, etc) or grabbing hold of someone else's. Even the Countess de Lave, who clearly is in no financial need of male support, richochets from terrible husband to terrible husband.

But if one accepts that either as an AU in which that is the premise to be accepted (in spite of the spinster ? lesbian writer Nancy Blake, who is, it is indicated, always bopping off to exotic parts to write books about them) or as a conventional stylisation of social relations for aesthetic purposes within 1930s Hollywood 'women's film' parameters, it does work.

(Even if one thinks, surely a woman as terribly morally worthy as Mary would not just be pursuing the trivial round of beauty parlour, lunch parties, etc, and would be out doing some kind of volunteer good work?)

I don't think one can claim (as I think I have seen?) that it's all about CLASS and closing ranks against wouldbe upward socially-mobile perfume-counter salesgirls, because Miriam Aarons (Paulette Goddard) is a chorus-girl who makes off with Sylvia's husband (to cheers all round) and is pretty much a good egg with the earthy wisdom derived from a hard life.

I.e. is Crystal's final vituperation justifiable, given that, as far as kennel metaphors go, she has demonstrated herself Queen Bitch throughout? Or just a final spitting of venom?

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Could not locate my copy of Thinking about Women (1968) this morning, so have been unable to determine whether Ellmann includes 'bitch/bitching' along with 'shrill' etc in her analysis of female-unfriendly gendered language. Can't remember if she does.

It's not as though men don't bitch, any more than they don't gossip (I once sat in front of 2 clergymen on a bus who were saying things about various other gentlemen of the cloth like 'He'd sell his mother to be made a bishop'), and gossip doesn't have to be malicious, but both words have connotations of the feminine and the malicious.

But while I think that bitching at people is usually a wrongness (though I can surely think of instances where I have been tempted and might even consider it justifiable), bitching about is another kettle of codfish.

It's not necessarily always a good thing, and people who do nothing but bitch may have their problems, but in a lot of cases it works as a letting off of steam about matters over which one has little or no control (e.g. as, with colleagues over tiresome readers/donors or Problem Colleagues).

I can see in the brave new social networking world this may turn problematic, as there seems to have been significant erosion of Goffman's useful distinction of 'on-stage/off-stage'. A tweet or a FaceBook posting is going to accrue a very different audience from the 3 people within earshot of one's desk as one puts down the phone on a particularly annoying enquirer.

But it's also possible - I hazard - to see bitching as one stage in a productive process of getting validation that something is Not OK, and possibly enabling moving on to a further stage of doing something more constructive.

Is this not how 'the [so-called] Second Wave of Feminism' aka 'Women's Liberation' got going? One could, I think, perceive a phase of undirected bitching about the gendered status quo in the early to mid-60s. Though possibly with some ambivalence - I recall in The Golden Notebook that Anna develops a sense of her sessions with Molly complaining about men (and do admit, the men in The Golden Notebook are seriously complainable about) as problematic and somehow 'essentially lesbian': which may be fascinating period detail or revealing something about Lessing. Or both.

But anyway: sometimes it's the letting off of steam that lets one go on not going bang in public, and sometimes it's clarifying that something somewhere is not right. And, okay, sometimes it is just plain spite.

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There has been some discussion, hither and yon, about perceptions that Certain People within X Field are a Cabal and you offend them at your peril.

Which gave me to reflect that for all I know there are people out there within my general academic fields of interest who are muttering about the Powerful Dr Oursin and Her Cabal of Dooooooom...

Which is, I will depose, fairly daft because, hey, it's not as though I'm even so much as in a position to say 'You'll never use archives in this town again, sonny!'

I will concede that there are loose connections and networks, and there is what I was wont to think of as the Floating Crap Game* of Historians of European Sexuality, C18th-C20th, because throughout the 90s and early 00s there was a significant likelihood that if I went to a conference in that area, or even one with just thematic sessions of relevance, I would encounter much the same people whether it was in Amsterdam, Berlin or Budapest.

So, if one was putting together an edited volume, or a special edition of a journal, or organising one's own conference, or just responding to queries about a particular subtopic within the field, these people were the ones who would immediately spring to mind.

But this was already changing - and I think I may have mentioned the jolt I got when somebody I thought of as pretty much one of the New Entry in the Field was introducing The Coming Younger Scholars at a conference session last year.

I will also concede that, without there being actual conspiracies going on, there is gossip making its way across these networks and if somebody asks me e.g. about someone whose cavalier attitude to deadlines had a significant negative impact on the completion of a particular project, I will say something to that effect. But what one picks up is also shared attitudes to particular individuals, or similar experiences of them, as with The Thruster.

I also think of Person Who Nearly Destroyed The Listserv, and who appeared to believe that there was a much more coherent and much closer 'Inner Ring' than actually existed and that everyone else on the list was in a much more privileged position than they were, and I cannot help flashing on my darling Dame Rebecca's apercu (it's in The Fountain Overflows, and I've probably cited it before - I certainly commented with it somewhere yesterday):

She had reached the stage through which many artists pass, when they feel themselves lone beasts persecuted by the herd and take such fierce defensive measures that presently the herd itself feels like a lone beast persecuted by a monster.

*I use this in the sense of not a stable static bunch of people, but a group where you almost certainly need to know someone who already knows about the FCG to get in on it.

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I was thinking, following something elsewhere, about that phenomenon when someone comes up to you and tells that 'People' are expressing an opinion about you or something you did. This is usually something adverse and critical. They may also attribute it to a specific person or persons.

I'm not sure this would always be the case, but pretty often this is about someone doing a number and messing with one's head. Even if specific person or persons said what they were supposed to have said, chances are that what's being quoted is a misinterpretation or seriously decontextualised and reworked for the purposes of the person who purports to be transmitting the intelligence.

Musing on this (it's probably the real-life non-electronic equivalent of 'the lurkers support me in email', no?) I was thinking upon an incident many years ago which happened to me in the throes of a particularly bitter break-up (I did the actual breaking, and more and more I come to the conclusion that I was justified in doing this).

The other person stated to me that they could (but out of the decency of their heart, would not) incorporate a scathing portrait of me into the roman a clef they were writing and 'everybody' would recognise it.

My (unvoiced) reaction to this was:

a) 'Frankly, ducky, I think you're vastly overrating your literary skills': because I had read previous chapters of the work in progress and had been hard put to it to make tactful comment - 'try not to pepper your text with exclamation marks' was probably not the response desired)

b) Everybody???? This magnum opus consists of a few chapters, so far, and my scepticism about its eventual completion, never mind finding a publisher, let me show u it. Even if you circulate it among your crowd, your crowd is not a crowd I hang with, and we have a bare handful of mutual acquaintances. Short of appending a footnote to identify the character as The Evil Oursin, of Blackest Heart, how could they tell who it was? and even then, how illuminating would that be if they don't know me to begin with?

Okay, it is always possible that I am now The Evil Oursin, of Blackest Heart, when they tell other people the narrative of their life, but again, these people don't know me. They may also, one even posits, be a tad sceptical of the narrative they're hearing...

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Reading this excellent post on how to deal with harassment over at Geek Feminism, I am entirely in accord with the view that this is not a problem for the individual, it's a wider social issue.

I'd also like to point out that the people who are advocating women expressing their response to creepy behaviour by violence, physical or verbal or just by forceful repudiation, don't seem to have any idea about how social life works.

This doesn't just apply to this kind of sexual harassment situation or in the sphere of gender relations - the person who lets their feelings burst out in other scenarios (as it might be, political arguments) is seen as having committed social fail and inability to control their emotions. Losing their cool, tut-tut.

There are, indeed, occasions in which one has more than a suspicion that one party is deliberately trying to goad the other into an outburst.* (Am now trying to remember novel I read in which woman is resisting 'seduction' and does so by bursting into tears, and comments something like, he was looking for some reaction and making a woman weep worked as well.)

While harassment often works on assumptions about women's social conditioning, breaching that conditioning in order to protest does not necessarily accrue sympathy. If this sort of thing happens within a social setting, it's the person who reacted in a way that disrupts the sense that we are all here having an agreeable time who gets looked at askance if not accused of over-reacting and causing offence. In fact, the person who reacts may be marked down for failure of poise in not cutting off the interaction earlier or dealing with it with more grace.

I.e. it's condemned in terms which are based on standards of appropriate womanly conduct or general social etiquette. Harassers are manipulating these, like the guy at a work-related party who complained of my unfriendliness to my then line manager, because I had been unwinding his arm from around my waist throughout a conversation. And would not have done this to line manager, because she was visibly partnered with his immediate boss. I don't think party spirit required standing still for this, any more than it required acceding to belief of one of his colleagues that anyone would consider a smooch on the cheek from him more than adequate recompense for assisting with the post-party clear-up.

But there are, of course, consequences in terms of reputation. I didn't mind being considered the local stroppy feminist, and neither of these men had direct influence over my workplace situation. Or even my academic activities, particularly. But the costs for other people in other situations may well be higher.

Difficult, touchy, and liable to inappropriate outbursts in social situations are not good things to have being bruited about about one. Whereas the female gossip network of necessary information such as tagging certain men as 'Not Safe in Taxis' has traditionally not had much clout, however much pragmatic survival strategy it supplied.

Disturbing even the small and temporary universe of a social situation is not a particularly low-risk strategy.

*Okay, am thinking here of the situation with Q who rather than discuss any issues that may have been going on within our friendship, persistently niggled away at me in an annoying and passive aggressive fashion on unrelated matters at a party, and when I finally snapped and said something, was able to create a narrative that I was a mean person who had insulted her and she did not want to see me any more. No, we were not 6 years old any more and this was not the school playground, srsly.)

oursin: Drawing of hedgehog in a cave, writing in a book with a quill pen (Writing hedgehog)

Conference continues good - and my paper went over like gangbusters, which is always of the good.

The lengthy time allowed for discussions enables less question and answer sessions than extended conversations around issues raised in the papers, rather like the comments thread on a provocative post, and themes and topics keep picking up in different ways across the papers. Excellentissimo.

Lunch was a delicious salad of chopped salad greens, smoked salmon, strawberries and balsamic vinegar, totally for the win. Also good bread.

Plus, had a good old gossip about The Thruster (formerly Thrusting Young Academic, but now chronologically a bit past that designation) with one of their former partners and someone else who knows them. Thruster's ears should have been not so much burning as spontaneously combusting. A number of my own reactions and suppositions confirmed.

Also, fond reminiscences of the Late Great.

oursin: Drawing of hedgehog in a cave, writing in a book with a quill pen (Writing hedgehog)

Thoughts which probably don't particularly cohere brought to you by reading an article by someone researching the history of 70s feminism (nope, still no mermaids singing to me... perhaps I should roll my trousers a bit more) and improving the cataloguing of a collection of correspondence at work.

The researcher mentions that a number of the publications she was using had up front warnings like 'For Women Only'* and even 'For Lesbians Only' or 'For Black Women only'** and that this made her uncomfortable.

I will concede that although in the course of my own research I have had occasion to read a number of publications which were marked upfront 'For Married Persons Only' or 'For Members of the Medical and Legal Professions', this is probably not quite the same thing, as those provisos were to avoid prosecution for disseminating obscene and immoral ideas (like birth control, or that possibly homosexuals were not evil sinners &/or criminals).

I do wonder to what extent anyone who was not a member of the intended audience for 1970s feminist newsletters would have been bothered about reading them anyway***: and the sort of person who would be reading them to mock or because they considered the authors a serious source of social subversion would not exactly have been deterred.

I was also given to think about the question of the declining curve of confidentiality.

In the course of my long career in archives, I have several times confronted the idea that something in the papers of an individual or organisation is highly sensitive and should be kept confidential for some extensive length of time.

NB this hardly ever maps to the concerns of the Data Protection Act and legal requirements thereunder.

In most cases the sensitivity related to something that was So No Longer An Issue likely to disturb anyone at all. There are questions also about internal and external matters. Some things are legitimately internal issues that very likely to do need to be thrashed with a certain degree of privacy, if not actual confidentiality, in ways and formats and modes that differ from those being used for communicating to a broader external audience. But while something may have been an exquisitely touchy matter at the time, it has probably quite shortly all gone well past its use-by date for causing angst and hoohah.

(This apercu of a declining scale of need for confidentiality may, I say, also pertain to the records of a certain subsection of A Certain Government Department the files produced by which it was proposed to close for really paranoid periods of time. Ahem: the Great Game has been declared, folks. Plz 2 check with Last Great Scorer.)

Anyway: I am now doing some much needed indexing of files of correspondence of a scientist-type person who kept letters in alphabetically arranged files. Including both interaction with colleagues, administrative stuff of the institution, personal letters, etc etc. It includes some things, like references, which were clearly formally written under the expectation of confidence and probably should be closed under Data Protection for a suitable period. It also, however, includes those letters to colleagues which include some material of professional import, a little personal chitchat, and gossipy speculations about some other person's likelihood of some honour.

It also includes letters to and from the object of a late-life passion living in a distant country (who may still be alive), who was also a professional colleague.

While this illustrates the extent to which people didn't actually draw boundaries between the strictly public and the definitely private in their communications (even in the pre-internet age) it does raise certain ethical questions.

*Which I am pretty sure was being defined in an exclusionary rather than inclusionary way, from the sort of things that were being said in those circles at that time about transpeople.

**Which the author of the article does remark raise problematic issues of who qualifies.

***After all, lads' mags like Zoo don't actually say 'This is not for North London Guardian reading women'...

oursin: Brush the Wandering Hedgehog by the fire (Default)

Thinking further about people faking it and telling stories that diverge from the strict truth, and family myths as embodied in a conversation I had yesterday about doing genealogy and hearing the family story that one forebear was descended from a long line of army officers, but whose father, on investigation, turned out to be a sergeant (who had, eventually, true, been commissioned).

And a novel (No Son of Mine) by my darling GB Stern about a man who lets it be supposed to his advantage that he is a byblow of Robert Louis Stevenson (whom he much resembles).

And the mention in this article by Kathryn Hughes about George Eliot and The Mill on the Floss:

Inveterate gossips such as Elizabeth Gaskell and Harriet Martineau made things even murkier by adding embellishments, including a fictitious illegitimate baby, to this already most juicy of literary scandals.

Which at first made me go 'Cool! why has no-one written the story in which she actually did have a baby?'

And then:

Made me think of a story in which Marion Evans is responsible for the care and upbringing (probably not by herself but by carefully-chosen foster-parents, whom she visits regularly) of a girl who is the illegitimate offspring of a dearly loved female friend (?e.g. suppose Barbara Leigh Smith had succumbed to John Chapman, instead of resisting him?).

Who maybe grows up with the inchoate belief that she is, in fact, Ms Evans' own daughter...

oursin: Photograph of the statue of Justice on top of the Old Bailey, London (Justice)

Cannot help but think that it is The Old Pals Act swinging into action on the Polanski-Is-Much-Wronged front: he is One of Them and any idosyncrasies of his are Only Pretty Fanny's Way.

(I'd note that quite apart from the whole male-bonding aspect to actual gang-rape, there is a male-bonding involved in pleas of 'but that wasn't really Rape', except that, ickily, in this particular case there are women getting on the act.)

But the 'Only Pretty Fanny's Way' is a justification or exculpation that often gets made in the cases of high status individuals (predominantly males) for behaviour that in lesser mortals who have them banged up for life without appeal and shunned by all decent thinking folk.

Have been given to recall the case of Arthur Koestler - I will not link to the Wikipedia entry, as it does not mention it at all, although the ODNB entry for him goes on record as believing its truth - who was revealed in a posthumous biography to be a serial sexual harasser and rapist of considerable violence of women whom he came across, including the wives of friends.

I came across this in the bio of Jill Craigie (wife of Michael Foot), who invited him in and made him supper one evening when he called and Foot was out, with the consequence that Koestler raped her. She kept quiet about this for years.

Understandably, because this was the 50s and I doubt that courts would have been altogether sympathetic to a married woman who admitted a man to the house while she was alone, etc - this was probably not unexceptionable in the sophisticated and civilised circles in which she herself moved, but the underlying assumption in those circles would be, I think, that making a man an omelette did not constitute an invitation to bed.

Plus, quite apart from the ordeal of taking it to court, one can imagine that she might have shrunk from the kind of debacle speaking out would have caused in those circles, because of the he-said, she-said thing that still applies. And the woman is always the one who is much more likely to get designated hysterical/neurotic/vengeful/delusional/attention-seeking.

Numerous women found Koestler mesmerically attractive, but clearly that wasn't enough for him.

(I just hope that there was at least a subversive network of female gossip warning other women to avoid being along with him.)

I also find this resonates with Mr 'Lust' the Vice-Chancellor of the recent ill-judged column in THE, with its proprietorial view of young women, its 'what-do-they-expect' comments, etc etc.

Rape - it isn't just a crime against individuals. There are reasons why it is a crime against the state and prosecuted as such. However, I suspect that ideas about it still carry huge amount of baggage from the days when it was a property crime against the men of the kinship group to which the woman belonged.

Plus, from reading the various historical studies, there has long been a reluctance to believe that anyone except a male clearly, preferably visibily, defined as practically subhuman, could actually perpetrate it, whereas 'respectable' 'decent' men - of course they wouldn't/couldn't/didn't... Which comfortably redefines anything that doesn't involve a drooling monster as 'oh, but that's not really rape'. And their mates or men like them aren't monsters.

Except, you know, that they really did look like a monster to the women involved.

oursin: Brush the Wandering Hedgehog by the fire (Default)

Was having conversation at conference with someone about The Thruster (who is really beyond the age-span when I can call them Thrusting Young Scholar by now).

And okay, networking is good, and making contacts is good, and getting yourself known is good.

But just getting your name and face known is not enough: what reputation is attached to it?

Thruster arrived in The Metropole from what one might conceptualise as The Provinces (in perhaps a rather globalised sense) maybe ten-twelve years ago, and starting making use of such metropolitan connections as they had to network madly.

Except, it soon came to look like a combination between one of those Ambitious Young Men from the Provinces On The Make in Balzac or Maupassant, and that Barbara Stanwyck movie in which there is a witty montage of her literally ascending within an organisation by using her wiles from the basement mailroom to the top floor managing director's suite.

And if you are all about milking people for their contacts and using them as a stepping stone to Big Names in the Field, and pushing yourself forward: people notice. They discuss it (okay, gossip about it).

Your work probably has to be very good indeed for people to discount that impression of you. And Thruster has done some solid work and puts in the time burrowing in primary sources, but isn't really as intellectually exciting or path-breaking as they think themself, in fact tends to be theoretically running in significant blinkers.

Okay, perhaps I still feel somewhat bitter in that I think I was an early stepping stone for the Thruster, who buttered me up long-distance before ever coming to The Big City and then basically moved on to more glamorous and influential figures. But also, somewhat, amused to see that there was this almost archetypal pattern being played out.

And I then think of the line about 'Always be nice to girls, you never know who they may marry' (I can't remember at the moment which Mitford reported this): be careful who you step on during your meteoric upward progress, because you never know who they may have a conversation with at a conference.

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